THE TRUTH, THE WHOLE TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH, SO HELP ME GOD!

THE TRUTH IS A LION AND WILL STAND HEAD AND SHOULDERS ABOVE THE FRAY

You know it is really interesting but the men in my life have been telling me for years that men are the problem.

I have difficulty  - much difficulty – believing that half of the human species – is the problem and I reject the notion.

Truth be told I love men – as the Mother of three sons and five grandsons –  and three daughters and six granddaughters – for good measure - I am just not going to hold half of the human species responsible for what is wrong with us right now.

I see plenty of women participating in the totalitarian extravaganza - ruled over by classic male and female psychopaths - that darkness which is currently gripping the planet.

If you ask me what the problem is – and although you probably didn’t - I will tell you anyway - as we grandmothers are not known for our failure to tell it like it is.

What we have is a consciousness problem and this has something to do with the dominance hierarchy we have chosen to support as a substitute for what is called a “civilization”.

That what we live in is not a “civilized” civilization – making clear the plain fact that civilized is a contradiction in terms -  is plain for everyone to see.

Every so called civilization has been a classical dominance hierarchy and every last one has failed from “weakness from within”.

What is this weakness from within you might ask?

And why the heck is a supposedly big brained intelligent species – with these unalienable rights conferred by a creator – doing repeating the same actions over thousands of years and ending up with the same atrocious and deadly results.

For those of us who have temporarily forgotten that the definition of insanity is repeating the same actions and getting the same results –  well there we have it.

Plain as day – it is a failure of humans to live up to the equipment provided by whatever creator we wish to believe has saddled us with these unalienable rights.

Condemned to be free - condemned to not be free – condemned to a dominance hierarchy better observed in a baboon troop – we struggle on with leaders who deserve the title of psychopathic, pedophilic, malignant toxic narcissists – and serially abusive manipulators - even now - serial murderers.

Show me a classic codependent family and I will show you where our societies are at – these “Lord of the Flies” assemblies we accept as “civilizations”.

Show me a classic malignant toxic narcissist psychopath, pedophile, sociopathic serial murderer - and I will point to our leaders as prime examples.

So in light of this you may well ask me how we might solve the problem.

We would need to begin with changing our own consciousness – to be at least somewhat in line with the instructions we are supposed to follow – “Do unto others what we would like them to do unto us” – for starters – and for finishers?

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Begin to educate ourselves in the fashion of what we would expect that a technologically advanced civilization would embrace and expect.

Educate ourselves about human behavior - and about what is - and is not - in the bounds of healthy and normal.

And the bounds of healthy and normal are pretty understandable even by the average five year old – these are hardly esoteric or mysterious – or academic.

But we live now in the manipulative hands of “experts” – equivalents of the “experts” you would never think of  hiring to wash and  wipe  your windows – or would imagine electing as dog catcher  –  Vampire characters qualified to star in a Dracula movie.

We are living now in our own nightmare and as a person and as a grandmother I am sick to death of this drama we call a “life worth living” – and sick to death of the drama queens we call normal.

We as humans need to grow up and get a literal life – one worthy of living for all involved.

Whether we like it or not we really are all in this together – and pretending this is someone else’ s fault – is just silly and immature.

This mess we are all in currently is our fault – no one else’s – and we had better snap out of the drama queen stuff – or one fine day one of those toxic narcissists we allow to run things is going to push the suicide button and that really will be all she wrote.

We are literal stardust - the minerals which help give us life - carbon, magnesium, potassium, and iron - all forged in the fiery furnaces of distant stars.

Time to behave together as if we are truly deserving of living as star seeds and as the strong individuals with these unalienable rights conferred at conception by our creator.

High time to be the change we wish to see in this universe.